Saturday, July 27, 2013

Update #2- Day 3

Day 3 – We met the other adopting couple from the agency that we’ll be seeing here in Beijing and in Guangzhou later on.  They are a young couple who are adopting their first baby!  We really enjoyed spending the morning and lunchtime with them.  We went to Tiananmen Square and the Forbidden City together with our adoption agency host as our tour guide.  Both sites are very large – immense - and really felt surreal when we were walking through them.  Tiananmen Square is adjacent to the Forbidden City.  The large picture of Mao that we've seen on TV at the square is on one of the entrances to the Forbidden City.  The square can hold up to 500,000 people at one time!  The Forbidden City was a large, multi-layered palace that was occupied by 24 emperors up until the early 1900s.  It has a beautiful garden – the imperial garden – with interesting rocks for decoration, which have many holes throughout them such that you can see faces, dragons, or whatever you imagine as you look at them (kind of like images in the clouds).  The Forbidden City included a clock museum tour.  The emperor was gifted clocks by various countries and provinces within China.  The clocks had intricate details, rotating parts, and were often trimmed with gold and precious jewels. 
Throughout the square and the city, we had many pictures taken – of us!  The people were fascinated, in particular, with the girls’ long blonde hair.  Hannah had many pictures taken of her, posing with Chinese girls of the same age.  Lynette also had pictures with ladies of various ages.  Micah and even Randy had their pictures taken.  Nathan escaped by wearing his sunglasses and not smiling and trying to look invisible.  He was quite pleased with himself as he succeeded in avoiding the cameras!  The people would also inconspicuously include our family in pictures as they appeared to look a different direction, but would gradually turn the camera on us.  Pretty funny.  Hannah seemed to enjoy her temporary stardom!  In addition to pictures, some people would reach out and feel the kids’ hair.  We were amused.
We ate lunch at a good Chinese restaurant, and ordered a variety of things to share as a group.  The table had a circular glass part in the middle that rotated, enabling us to obtain the food without lifting the serving plates.  We ordered steamed fish for the boys, since they have allergy issues.  The restaurant has a large tank in the back, where the fish was swimming less than 30 minutes before being served to our table!  The boys were not very impressed when the WHOLE fish was served, with eyes looking at them!  Micah did a good job of eating the fish after I put some on his plate.  Nathan, on the other hand, did not want anything to do with the fish (he ate more food at the hotel when we returned).  From that point on, the kids tended to rotate the center section of the table so that the fish wasn't looking at them!  This was challenging, as the three of them were not sitting together!  It was a constantly rotating fish!
We had our first “squatty potty” experience at the Forbidden City.  It was interesting to say the least.  Lynette thinks that they are technically more sanitary than western toilets, even in the USA.
Randy and Nathan took a trip to a Kung fu shop across Beijing.  It was during rush hour traffic, and took about 1 hour each way.  The shop was on a small side street near the Beijing Sports Academy (which we did not see), where Jet Li trained.  The people were very nice and helped us go through the store.  Many sharp objects for sale!
After having eaten out for so many meals, we decided to eat “at home” last night.  Oatmeal can taste pretty good, especially after all of the complex, rich flavors from the various restaurants.
We were able to walk again last night, enjoying the evening activities as many Chinese people come out in the cooler weather, stroll the street, and eat (including the wiggling scorpions on a stick).  We found a bookshop on this walk, and were able to obtain some children’s books and videos with both Chinese and English!
Please continue to pray for opportunities to witness to others as we spend time in China.  We want them to understand that it’s not that we’re “good” people who want to care for and love these special children.  The Lord is the only One who is good and that His love for the nations is what motivates us to share the good news as we follow His directions.  We pray that adoption will provide opportunity to encourage believers and share the Lord’s kindness, love, and compassion with those who don’t know Him.

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Update #1: Day 1 and Day 2

Jet lag is rough on those of us who haven't done shift work!  I feel it for sure, but know a little about how it feels & can cope with it. The kids have virtually passed out the last two nights.
 
We arrived safely in Beijing – no events with planes!  We were automatically upgraded to Economy Plus (a little more legroom), which was wonderful.  The climate is quite similar to NC – nice and hot, with humidity.  Tram ride to pick up luggage was like playing sardines with approximately 100 people.  When you think that the tram is full, you double the number of people on board, and that is about where we were at – unable to stand on both feet due to other feet being underneath our own! The van ride was very warm and stagnant.  We arrived really exhausted and checked into the hotel.   After showers, we walked in search of the missing restaurant and never found it.  While walking, we noticed a very congested, less commercial-looking food vending area.  We decided to wade into the foray and look for food options.  After seeing the scorpions-on-a-skewer (still waving their legs in panic about the cooking that was about to ensue), octopus legs on the same skewers, squid, strange meats on sticks (a.k.a. “WAP” - weird animal parts), and the pungent scents, we turned around and exited with less appetite.  We finally decided to eat dinner at the hotel – a much safer (albeit more expensive) option.  Quite an experience!  The kids were so tired by the time we returned to our rooms, that they fell asleep wherever they landed!

Day 2 – Breakfast at the hotel (included with the rooms) was very nice!  One incident involving a hot pepper that was eaten, though.   I thought that one of the boys was going to have to ride to the hospital as he was gripping his neck, with purple face, tears and sweat pouring down his face as he ran to tell me and ask for more water!  After two bananas, a large helping of sweet potatoes, steamed rice, and a cup of tea, it finally stopped burning so profusely!  On the positive side, he finished his breakfast with amazing speed!  On a serious note, we were very blessed today by the food options for our entire crew!  Kristi worked with our dietary needs and fed us two wonderful meals!  Another interesting site at breakfast – a number of adoptive families!  These were families who have previously adopted Chinese kids, and had them with them.  The most conspicuous of the families was an Amish/Mennonite family with two biological teenage sons, and three adopted Chinese children! All of them were dressed in their traditional clothing, plus flip flops!  Very neat to see!

We traveled to the orphanage that we planned on visiting, located in a small village about 45 minutes south of Beijing.  On the way, we were able to see more of what rural China looks like.  The workers have wonderful hearts for serving the Lord!  Many of them have vision impairments, as do all of the children.  We were able to tour the facility, meet a 6-year old that we plan to sponsor, and sing with the English immersion class as they sang.  We look forward to sharing more in person about this part of our trip!

We visited with our friends from the states for the remainder of the day - about 8.5 delightful hours! They were an encouragement to us, helped us with many phrases that we can use with Joanna, and showed us around the area and explained some of the cultural differences.  Very eye-opening.  The kids loved playing together!!  We went swimming during the hot part of the day – a real treat as we escaped from the heat!  We received a number of stares and had our photographs taken a few times. We were labeled as foreigners by the Chinese – quite loudly at times!  We were able to talk to them about the challenges they face, and the blessings that they have been able to be a part of.  We also delivered a care package from friends in the USA, consisting of difficult-to-obtain items!  They expressed their heartfelt thanks for the things that we take for granted as being able to be obtained from our neighborhood superstores.  We experienced a couple of taxi rides through the day, one of which Lynette rode with two very capable, strong young men, ages 6 & 8, who were quite experienced with such things.  ☺  With both of our families together, we had to split into 3 taxis in order to get back to their house!  The evening hours saw many people come out!  People of all ages come out and socialize for a number of hours each evening.  There are street vendors that set up shop right outside the apartments where our friends live, selling used and new items, food, and various other things.  The produce is very beautiful – we were impressed with the size as well!  Our friends helped us get water for the next few days.  After two sleepy-eyed taxi rides to the hotel, we called it a day.  We almost left Micah asleep in the front seat of one of the taxis, until Nathan asked where he was!  Well, it was a long day!

We were truly blessed and really encouraged by the people we met, and by our friends as they live out their faith here in Beijing!

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Our Itinerary

23 JUL 13  -  UNITED AIRLINES FLT:4882 to Washington Dulles
                     UNITED AIRLINES FLT:897 to Beijing
24 JUL 13  -  Arrive in Beijing at 2:20pm
                     Check in at Novotel Peace Hotel, Beijing … checkout on July 28th
Thursday, July 25th
Visit Bethel Orphanage, Doudian Project
Evening with Steve, Kristi, & Family
 Friday, July 26th
Visit Forbidden City
 Saturday, July 27th
Visit Great Wall
 Sunday, July 28th
Checkout of Peace Hotel
10:50am flight MU2812 to Nanjing
Check in to Grand Trustel Mandarin Garden Hotel … checkout on August 2nd
Monday, July 29th
Joanna arrives!
Tuesday, July 30th
Apply for Notary & Passport
Wednesday, July 31st
Thursday, August 1st
Receive Notary
Friday, August 2nd
Get Passport
Checkout of Mandarin Garden Hotel
Flight to Guangzhou
Check in to Guangdong Victory Hotel … checkout on August 9th
Saturday, August 3rd
Fill out forms / Meds check
Sunday, August 4th
Monday, August 5th
Tuesday, August 6th
Receive Meds results
Wednesday, August 7th
Thursday, August 8th
Interview at Consulate
Friday, August 9th
Checkout of Guangdong Victory Hotel
Receive Visa in afternoon
Van ride to Hong Kong
Check in to Regal Airport Hotel
Saturday, August 10th
Check out of Regal Airport Hotel 
10 AUG 13  -  UNITED AIRLINES FLT:116 to NEWARK
             EMBRAER 145 JET to GREENSBORO HIGHPT Airport ... arrive at 616PM

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Why do we adopt?

We adopt for Christ. We choose to love these precious children that God holds so dear. We want to pour into their lives all that God has so richly blessed us with...unconditional love, kindness, compassion, hope for the future. There are many different types of outreach and ministry. This is one that we can do from within our home. It is such a privilege to parent these special kids. We don't believe we are called to a life of comfort and ease, but rather to a life of service, and we are confident that God will continue to guide us and sustain us on this journey.

We are happy to share with you that we are flying out in just under a week, July 23rd, to adopt our new daughter in China! Joanna WenYan, born April 28, 2007, currently lives in an orphanage in Jiangsu Province...but not for long. She has cerebral palsy which mildly affects the right side of her body and some issues with her left eye. The orphanage kindly sent us several short video clips in which we saw her jumping around and doing hand motions along with a children's song, playing with toys, interacting with a caregiver, and walking across the room while reciting a popular Chinese poem. I had requested video footage of Joanna walking and talking, but I didn't mean AT THE SAME TIME.  Too funny!

 Some questions you might have:

 Does she know English? Probably not.

 How are you going to communicate with her? We will use a combination of Google Translate, sign-language, picture boards, and Mandarin-speaking friends and doctors as needed.

How do your other children feel about this adoption? Initially, the greatest concern was having to sit 3-across in the back seat. Seriously? Currently, we're all feeling a combination of excitement and nervousness. Except for Aliyah...she's just happy about it all. The more, the merrier!

How long will you be in China? 19 days

Are you taking the kids with you? Only the older 3 children are coming with us. Aliyah will be staying with one of her wonderful nurses. Mommy is very sad about this, but knows she will be in good hands.

 How can we get updates? We'll have someone posting updates on this blog.

 How can we contact you? Pressingonto7@yahoo.com